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Marine to SAHD: Introduction
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Introduction to Marine to SAHD Blog, laying out where I have been what experiences I have.
My name is Andrew “Fergie” Ferguson; I enlisted in the United States Marine Corps in 2007 and did four years of active duty in Hawaii. In those four years I deployed twice, once to Iraq and Afghanistan. I was injured during those four years on multiple occasions and still am injured and receiving help from the Veterans Affairs.
Before my second deployment I met my wife, Ashland Ferguson, who supported me during and after I got back from Afghanistan. We now have been married for three years and going strong. In 2011 it was time for me to make a decision stay in or get out of the military. Ashland and I made a decision for me to get out and go to school full time, utilizing my Post 9/11 GI Bill. Within the time I got out in 2011, still in Hawaii, I got a job working at a local restaurant while going to school full time. I eventually quit the job due to us PCSing to Fort Lewis, Washington where we currently are stationed. Not too long after we got to Fort Lewis I hit the ground trying to find a job, and did so. I was working as a security guard and still going to school online with the same school back in Hawaii.
Soon after I got the job we found out we were pregnant, yes it was a shock but we were ready to become parents and ecstatic. We went in for a normal appointment and got a surprise like no other, the doctor said, “Well baby one and baby two are fine.” My wife and I looked at each other with confusion and had to ask the doctor multiple times, “Are you sure?” We eventually overcame our shock and started planning for two! Well in December our two little girls were born and since my wife is the active duty member she had the first two months with the girls. I was still working as a security guard until February 2013 when I quit becoming a Stay-At-Home-Dad. It was a tough decision because all my life I have worked, worked, worked and I had a hard time thinking that I was going to be bored out of my mind, and stuck with house work.
Well that is why I am doing this blog because I could not have been more wrong in my life! I want to share my progression and tips I can give back to new dads like myself, mostly with multiples. This blog is for Stay-At-Home-Dads, Active duty parents becoming Stay-At-Home-Parents, and Everyone in between.
Key facts about me, (for those who do not like to read)
- Marine Veteran-Four Years with Two Deployments (Iraq and Afghanistan Personal)
- Disabled Veteran-receives education benefits and disability pay from the Veterans Affair(VA)
- VFW Member of Post 11402 in Lacey, Washington
- One PCS move, No Deployments as a Spouse of an Active Duty Member
- MACHOspouse Member
- MANning the homefront Facebook member
- Stay-At-Home-Dad (as of February and to multiples)
Marine to SAHD Andrew “Fergie” Ferguson
Macho Money Investing 101 is a video series based on the fundamentals of investing. These videos will discuss many different types of investment accounts, some basic investment philosophies, and offer advice on how to find the right financial planner to fit your needs. Investing is a risk we take to build financial wealth, and even though the level of risk varies from one military family and investment to another, there will always be an opportunity to lose money. Anyone remember 2008? So before we begin investing our hard-earned cash, we really should have our basic life needs covered just in case something goes wrong. In this video, Certified Financial Planners, Scott Halliwell and JJ Montanaro, discuss what anyone's first steps to investing should look like. Wrestling with the idea of cutting money from your budget to build a savings account? Below is some great advice from both JJ and Scott on why it's important to have some cash readily available in a savings account.
Guys, the APA has determined that men and women share cognitive skills, we are fundamentally the same. The whole notion of guys being better at math and women being better at communication is simply a social construct. I firmly believe that statement, but that doesn't change the social construct.
This same social construct demands that we take care of our families and makes us feel like lesser men when our combat boot wearing women make more than us.
Throw that idea away, after all it's just an idea. Who makes what, doesn't have to matter.